Back when I was running the tradingswats group I regularly corresponded with a guy named Joel in Texas. He was really interested in having his first spanking experience. And I hooked him up with another guy in Houston. I guess it was on of those life changing experiences. He now does the spanking mostly like Bill. And once in a while he lets me know how things are going. Anyway sharing some of his recents thought.
Bill-
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From: Joel
Howdy Bill,
Sometimes it helps to know what fans are thinking as they look at your Website, so I thought I'd share some of my thoughts. Actually I got the idea about emailing this after seeing your recent video about John's punishment. In the write-up on the Tribes site you wrote "Maybe the basement isn't the right place for John. We're too playful." True, there is a definite difference in the tone of John's licking versus the more playful tone during the licking of others, but for me the difference is welcome. I like the variety of adding a few punishment spankings into the mix of fun spankings. For certain you’ve avoided the darkness that happens when punishment crosses over into the realm of BDSM. The extreme stuff turns it into a beating rather than a licking. Extreme stuff is a real turn-off for me so I won’t watch it.
What you did with Scott’s punishment is an example of what you are doing so well. Here’s what especially appeals to me: (1) Throughout Scott’s licking you frequently reminded him that he was taking licks because he screwed up, i.e., "You're not doing your exercises", "You took off work to come here today", etc. Every punishment licking I’ve ever taken, either from my Dad as a teenager or later as an adult, included hefty reminders of my fuck-ups even as the licks were being administered. (2) Your voice conveyed a real appropriate gruff, pissed off tone during the licking. I know from my own punishment lickings that the vocal tone really reinforces the sting of the strap. (3) The speed and intensity of the licks were especially appropriate, i.e., after each verbal chastisement you increased both the speed and the intensity with which the lick was given. Scott obviously felt that he was being punished (as opposed to just taking fun licks) because there were multiple grunts throughout his whipping. And, also, near the end as he was taking the tawse he was bucking up and down with each lick.
Great job, Bill. I continue to enjoy seeing each of your videos. By all means continue the fun spankings, but it’s also good to see some punishment lickings mixed in along the way.
Joel
From: Paddle Butt
Took too long to respond to this. I did appreciate you sharing your thoughts. You've been a good friend for a long time now. Even at a distance. And maybe the time will come that we get our butts together.
I very much enjoy what I do. And try to communciate that in my blogs and other posts. Sometimes put more energy into producing videos, pictures and blogs than I do to the real spanking. But the spanking is a joy.
I do appreciate hearing from others that they share my enthusiasm and that I've made a connection. You don't know how often guys walk away from the hands on experience which felt good for me and they don't share a single word of appreciation or even disappointment.
Could I share your thoughts with others in my groups?
Bill
From: Joel
Hi Bill,
Here's what I say back to ya:
"You don't know how often guys walk away from the hands on experience which felt good for me and they don't share a single word of appreciation or even disappointment." Oh yeah but I do know, Bill. I'm not whipping nearly as much ass as you are, but the little I am results in the same response. First off it's nearly impossible for me to make anything more than email contact since it seems that the vast majority just want to talk about taking a licking. Now and then I'm lucky enough to get some actual person to person interaction, and for most of these it's precisely the way that you have described it.
"Could I share your thoughts with others in my groups?" Sure and most definitely! Would it help those in your group to know that we've kept in email contact over the years even though the possibility of person to person contact has been nil? You can even mention my presence near Houston, TX or the circumstances by which we "met" if it would be of benefit to you. Bill, the guys gotta know that even if they aren't there in your genral Chicago area that it still helps to keep in contact with you.
My best,
Joel
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